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When Sex Is a Weapon: How Narcissists Use Intimacy to Manipulate You


If the sex was incredible—but the relationship nearly destroyed you—you’re not alone.
You’re also not crazy.


Maybe you’ve asked yourself:
Why did it feel so good if it was so toxic?
Why am I still cr...

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Trauma Bond vs. Real Love: 3 Feelings That Tell You the Truth


If the main emotions in your relationship are confusion, desperation, and unpredictability, it might not be love—it might be a trauma bond. Let’s unpack the difference so you can stop second-guessing ...

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“Am I the Narcissist?” Why Feeling Selfish Might Actually Be a Good Sign

 

You’ve spent so long caring for everyone else that the moment you start caring for yourself… you panic.

You wonder:
“Is this selfish?”
Or worse—“Am I the narcissist?”

If that question has ever cr...

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Emotional Abuse Unmasked: 8 Subtle Signs You Might Be Missing


You don’t always know you’re being emotionally abused.
Especially when it comes cloaked in sarcasm, “concern,” or jokes that don’t feel funny.


Emotional abuse doesn’t leave visible scars, but it leav...

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How Unhealed Attachment Wounds Lead to Addictive Toxic Relationships


"Our attachment system looks at mom and dad and says, ‘If I get too far away from these two people, I could die.’ And then, in adulthood, our brains do the same thing—with partners we should absolut
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8 Signs to Identify Healthy Relationships & Find Real Love When Healing From Narcissistic Relationships


There’s a point in every healing journey where you start asking:
Wait, what does a healthy relationship even look like?!

Because when you’ve spent years walking on eggshells, people-pleasing, and twi...

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Am I the Toxic One? 3 Questions to Find Out


If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I the toxic one in my relationship?”—this post is for you. That gnawing self-doubt, the relentless ping-ponging between “Was it me?” and “Am I the problem?” can leav...

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Do I Stay or Leave? Why The New Year Is The Perfect Time To Unlock Your Intuition & Make Relationship Decisions


Ah, the holidays—a time for twinkling lights, endless cookies, and… existential relationship crises? Yep, if you’ve ever unwrapped a gift from your partner while wondering if you’ll still be together ...

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Breaking Free from Codependency & Building Healthy Self-Esteem

 

Let’s talk about codependency—yep, the heavy, sticky stuff that’s way too familiar for some of us. I recently sat down with two incredible women, Behk and LAH, the hosts of Narcissists, Gas...

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6 Strategies to Communicate Healthfully With Your Partner


If you haven't yet heard me yell from the rooftops just how important communication is in a relationship, listen up 📣 sister!

Communication is a cornerstone of a healthy and successful relationship for...

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7 Ways You Sabotage Good Relationships (After Bad Ones)

 

If left unintegrated, the experience of a bad relationship can mess with your head… and impact future relationships.

You might unintentionally sabotage good relationships as a result of lingering em...

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Want to Attract the Right Man? Start Here (It’s Not About Playing Games)

 

I have to be honest with you… I don’t really care if you get the guy 😱.

My work with women goes so much deeper and is about so much more than that.


It’s rewiring and reprogramming everything that k...

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