If the main emotions in your relationship are confusion, desperation, and unpredictability, it might not be love—it might be a trauma bond. Let’s unpack the difference so you can stop second-guessing ...

You’ve spent so long caring for everyone else that the moment you start caring for yourself… you panic.

You wonder:
“Is this selfish?”
Or worse—“Am I the narcissist?”

If that question has ever cr...

You don’t always know you’re being emotionally abused.
Especially when it comes cloaked in sarcasm, “concern,” or jokes that don’t feel funny.

Emotional abuse doesn’t leave visible scars, but it leav...

"Our attachment system looks at mom and dad and says, ‘If I get too far away from these two people, I could die.’ And then, in adulthood, our brains do the same thing—with partners we should absolut...

There’s a point in every healing journey where you start asking: Wait, what does a healthy relationship even look like?!

Because when you’ve spent years walking on eggshells, people-pleasing, and twi...

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I the toxic one in my relationship?”—this post is for you. That gnawing self-doubt, the relentless ping-ponging between “Was it me?” and “Am I the problem?” can leav...

Ah, the holidays—a time for twinkling lights, endless cookies, and… existential relationship crises? Yep, if you’ve ever unwrapped a gift from your partner while wondering if you’ll still be together ...

If you haven't yet heard me yell from the rooftops just how important communication is in a relationship, listen up 📣 sister!

Communication is a cornerstone of a healthy and successful relationship for...

If left unintegrated, the experience of a bad relationship can mess with your head… and impact future relationships.

You might unintentionally sabotage good relationships as a result of lingering em...